Coming Home For Spanking 4 Years Olds Defiant Behavior In Preschool Is KILLING ME!?

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4 years olds defiant behavior in Preschool is KILLING ME!? - coming home for spanking

My son has had a fairly good behavior until he 4th Thats when all hell broke loose. He is good at home, I sometimes struggle sometimes, but always succeed in what I ask, without throwing any adjustment. The school is a holy terror. He is good with other children. But when his teacher asks him to do something or do not get is how he ran up to her and said, "NO!" and cries and cries. He does not know to act in this way at home, or it will consiquences! So not in the last few months more days to apply for and obtain a negative relationship with their teacher. How many people who have written about this problem, I tried everything. Time things, joy removed, making him stay in her room at night, unless you eat dinner.So I've finally got the beating. I'm over it! He showed me how a child who is not only necessary, for me it was just different. Now we have Goton so that you receive each day, a full report to be negative when you hit Hom, doens't their TV on all the currently playing on the computer, going out or anything. We are completely eliminated from the ideas. So, I just hope that they eventually tired of coming home and getting lost and not in a position to ask us how their time together at home. "Mom and Dad do not you make the whole day if you do what your teacher asks you to do." It may take some time, but I hope you get the picture. Has anyone been in this boat. Please do nothate taken because I do not fear this nation has, to a parent a Wussy who can complete their frolicking children, and I refuse to have as a child, and I am ready to do what it takes to repect to the nessecary that I devserves or another adult!

8 comments:

Ivy G said...

Maybe not the right school for him. I am not against his enemy, but the problem is how they do it. It does not connect to the misconduct to be beaten at school. He believes that "if I go home at Mom and Dad hit me."

If you were at school and took him as he was so poor that may impact the plague, if it does not.

Every teacher has to discipline or have to change schools. They worry about your behavior at home. Make sure that good behavior is rewarded. Sometimes if a child wants the attention of a sentence is actually a reward. I think the error works best in our 2 years old and still works well for 4 years. I often tell the age of 4 years, I did not like the behavior and to his room, where you have to sit.

I feel that I'm no expert, but given the collision with a child after school a bad grade, it seems a terrible idea. Everything you teach him that he meet her after school.

Pearl said...

Honey, the school I'm spoiled in the letter to the old child. In any case, a child who loves to ask, but the good old no shots on the back. All the people screaming "Children should not fight spanking. You can not see how our children are gone downhill since they corporal punishment in schools and took most of the houses?" I was assistant to the classroom for 24 years and no more children than I do, but who need more discipline than in the good old days. We have a child described in detail in our school this year, that's how her son. I think the best is a bit immature and not in school all day . The word of parenthood is a constant. If you say that you want or do nothing, you should proceed. Honey Good luck and remember, no one died as a man SWAT good old days on the back.

StepMomm... said...

I recommend reading these articles by James Lehman, a man who knows his stuff when it comes to children's behavior.

Why is the word "no" shooting of an opposition Defiant Child
http://ezinearticles.com/?Why-the-Word-No-Sets-Off-an-Oppositional,-rebel-Child & id = 1888789

Temper, Temper - Stay calm when the kids click on the buttons
, Http: / / / ezinearticles.com? Temper Temper --- its maintenance-cool-kids-in-your-Push Buttons & id = 1889363

We thank you and wish you good luck!

StepMomm... said...

I recommend reading these articles by James Lehman, a man who knows his stuff when it comes to children's behavior.

Why is the word "no" shooting of an opposition Defiant Child
http://ezinearticles.com/?Why-the-Word-No-Sets-Off-an-Oppositional,-rebel-Child & id = 1888789

Temper, Temper - Stay calm when the kids click on the buttons
, Http: / / / ezinearticles.com? Temper Temper --- its maintenance-cool-kids-in-your-Push Buttons & id = 1889363

We thank you and wish you good luck!

ravyn m said...

I think the same thing as you! I taught as a child, and I think I grew up very well. My son felt the same way at that age, and the truth, which grew only. But it was a long way. I would say just continue to do what we do and see how things come school year.

Kittysue said...

Maybe your son is simply not ready for preschool children. Not all children are ready in 4 years in this environment.

Perhaps look at the Montessori school, or other options that you can give your child more freedom to explore and things at their own pace. All children can thrive in a structured environment at this age, and action is the only way to express their frustration

Your attention to your diet - you eat too much sugar / corn syrup, fructose, or foods with artificial sweeteners, preservatives, dyes, etc., can influence the behavior

Kittysue said...

Maybe your son is simply not ready for preschool children. Not all children are ready in 4 years in this environment.

Perhaps look at the Montessori school, or other options that you can give your child more freedom to explore and things at their own pace. All children can thrive in a structured environment at this age, and action is the only way to express their frustration

Your attention to your diet - you eat too much sugar / corn syrup, fructose, or foods with artificial sweeteners, preservatives, dyes, etc., can influence the behavior

SSV said...

Some children need a little spanking and beating a big difference between spanking and their children. Have you tried to deal with teachers and discuss in detail what happened? What ever you do, make sure they are compatible and may take some time, but eventually you will get out that their behavior is unaccpetable. One thing you should probably know is when to tell the teacher? My daughter is great at school but at home a little pain is :-) So I've reversed the problem.

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